The Plan (Love don't just fall from the sky, you gotaa werk on it).

In between researching on 'How to become a vampire' and daydreaming about my next holiday, I realised that we have too many distractions in our life. To succeed, we were taught to have a goal, a plan, an ambition and a bery strong determination. This is because we get distracted so easily and losing focus is like second nature.

Same goes for relationships. We often forget the most fundemental rules that humans abide and seek answers in places as absurd as under a rock. Have a goal, have a plan, and have lots of determination. This is especially true when the topic of 'Love' is put on the table. Infatuation is one messy bitch. Lust is so strong that it can pull one away from a sane mind. You may want to take the relationship in an easy pace for a minute, but the next, you desire to take it to the next level. You may have said to yourself you like to know the other person more before committing too much into the relationship, however, you end up being clingy and almost an irritant to the other.

What isit then, have you done wrong? For sure love is blind and not rational and people should follow what their heart tells them. If so, why have a plan? Why have a plan B if plan A does not work? Well, as i have mentioned earlier, to succeed, one needs a goal, a plan and lots of determination. Love don't just fall down from the sky, it has to be worked on... or you will most likely find yourself in a sorry state.

When you first meet someone, you should always have a plan. Always have an idea of where you want to take the relaionship to. However, the most important rule ever is NEVER sleep with the other person on the first date. This will mean that the relationship will not blossom in the future.

Secondly, always never give too much of yourself away. Leave some room for mystery so the the other person is always hungery to know you better. Leave the alcohol on the side as it makes people talk.

Thirdly, no matter how much the dirty talk has accrued, always remain polite and classy. You don't want to be classified as a dirty whore.

Lastly, treat the other person the same way you would like them to treat you. If they do no correspond, it means that he/she is just not that into you. Move on.

These points are the fundamental foundation to a slow and steady grpwth. It is always better to take it slow than rush into things, leaving you in bouts of regret and in hopes of turning back time.